Some people seem to be late for work, business meetings and other events. The reasons for this lack of punctuality were revealed by the doctor-psychotherapist, associate professor of the psychotherapy department of the Moscow Institute of Psychoanalysis Vladimir Fainzilberg.
According to him, usually a person who is late tends to overestimate his personality and underestimate those to whom he does not have time to meet. A delay without objective reasons also signals an individual's uncertainty.
- They (those who are late - approx. "VM") have a so-called struggle of motives, they are not sure what to go. Not sure what they want to say, - the expert explained.
Constant delays, the medic continued, can be inherent in depressed and subdepressive people. They perform all their actions slowly, because their spirit is suppressed.
“Accordingly, they cannot calculate their arrival at the meeting point in time, they cannot get together on time, and this also leads to a delay,” says Feinsilberg.
Another reason for constant delays is internal dissatisfaction and managerial syndrome. If earlier the employee came on time because he loved his job, now he is late due to the developed dislike for work. In this case, the specialist recommends finding a new vocation.
It is emphasized that usually several factors, and not just one, affect a person's regular delays. In this regard, when the need arises to solve the problem of delays, you need to look at the situation. Nevertheless, there are general recommendations: observe the regime of day and night, work and rest, do not forget to eat well and devote time to sports, writes RT.