Lack of intimacy often affects all areas of our life.
The sexual side has a huge impact on all processes in our life. As a rule, having started sex life in early youth, over the years we give birth to the very energy that coaches who work in the field of establishing relationships between a man and a woman talk about so often. However, at different times in our lives, events can occur that affect the quality and quantity of sex. Naturally, such changes associated with our physiology cannot but affect the psyche. Abstinence, whether voluntary or involuntary, has a particularly serious impact. There is good news: no one has yet died from prolonged abstinence, and yet the psychological moment can seriously complicate life, because a suppressed sexual desire causes tension and gradually develops into a neurotic state.
According to research by American sociologists, the last decade has brought more young people who begin an intimate life at least 20-21 years old, more and more psychologists receive young patients who deal with the problem of lack of sex life, the situation is aggravated by the moment when all acquaintances and friends around have managed to leave to marry / marry a second time, and the patient himself is still in search of the ideal soul mate, whom he is ready to entrust with "the most important thing."
Experts are sure that no matter how self-sufficient a person may seem, the absence of a sexual partner for a long time can shake even the strongest psyche, for the most part this is due to social pressure and constant attempts to compare oneself with the immediate environment. In addition, late sexual intercourse is becoming somewhat unusual in modern culture, although in fact there are 20% more such people this decade than you in the previous two generations who started looking for sexual partners in high school.
Another side effect of voluntary abstinence can be a decrease in sexual desire and attraction: a person gets used to the idea that he does not need sex, such an attitude can seriously affect libido and in the future a person begins to experience problems with arousal if a person nevertheless meets on his way with whom it would be possible to build a harmonious intimate relationship. In this situation, it is not always possible to do without a sexologist.
In any case, if the lack of sex life brings you only negative experiences, this becomes a reason to consult a specialist, otherwise it will be difficult for you to establish a harmonious connection with your partner. Do not allow a situation where your sexual energy will not find a way out.
